Posts Tagged ‘research’

Adult Friend Finder?

My new FetLife profile hasn’t been as successful as I had hoped, so on the advice of a friend I set up an Adult Friend Finder account. … continue reading this entry.


stag·nant  –adjective

1.  not flowing or running
2.  stale or foul from standing
3.  characterized by lack of development, advancement, or progressive movement

Yup, that’s me lately.  The question is, what do I do about it? … continue reading this entry.

And Ode to FetLife…

A few weeks ago when I found myself grasping around for inspiration, I decided to take a tour of… continue reading this entry.

New Toys!

As I’m sure I mentioned before, I’m nothing if not prepared!  I have some holiday time coming up next week, and that means the house to myself!  … continue reading this entry.

The Let Down

Imagine the scene…candles lit, dirty film on the TV, clothes shed in a pile on the floor, vibrator at the ready…and very high expectations on my part. … continue reading this entry.

The Pick Up

I may be too immature to actually own a vibrator.

I have waited impatiently for almost two weeks for my very first vibrator to arrive, so I practically ran to the post office to pick it up yesterday when I found out it was in.  … continue reading this entry.

Guilty Pleasures

I was feeling a little sorry for myself today, so I decided to combine work and play.

The Mr. Clark’s Assistant series is going to incorporate a lot of experimenting, for both of them.  I figured the best way to write about it, is to learn about it first hand…so I did a little searching and bought myself a few treats. … continue reading this entry.


I got in touch with an old friend of mine who is nice enough to help me with some research for a book/article I’m working on. He works in some of the clubs in the city and I need a tour of some of the underground establishments that cater to fetish and BDSM lifestyles. … continue reading this entry.